Love does not demand it's own way

I. never realized that i had this problem until I did not get my own way. I was the baby girl of my family. Daddy's little girl, and I got my way a lot. I was teacher's pet, nurses's pet and even Preacher's pet because I really respected these positions. I got my way a lot. I am married to a man who spoils me rotten, he puts my needs before his own. I get my way a lot. But when a crisis came and my Mon was very sick in the hospital my big sister and I disagreed on what we needed to do. I did not get my way and I was shocked. I had a plan, it was a perfectly good plan. Later as I was complaining to Mark as we drove away, Mark stopped the truck and told me that everyone wants to help and they did not have to do it my way. Man, I hate it when he is right. So, I learned a lesson, but I still have a long way to go I still think that my ideas are good, but just maybe I need to listen to your way and maybe try to compromise or even.....do it your way. Yikes!